Traditionally, you are expected to set aside two months of your hard earned salary in order to purchase an engagement ring for your bride to be. You are also expected to find a ring that has the shape, size and look your future bride will cherish. So the big question on your mind should be, “Where do I start?”

    The first thing you need to do is figure out how much you can spend on your engagement ring. For example, let’s say you make roughly $50,000. A good rule of thumb is that you should spend about $8,000 – $8,500 on the engagement ring. There are many jewelers that will allow you to make a down payment and then pay for the ring in increments so that the cost is not as overwhelming as it looks. There may also be something to be said for waiting long enough to actually save that sum of money.

    Next, you need to figure out the style. For example, you can look at new, heirloom or antique diamond engagement rings. Take the time to research jewelers to make sure you are purchasing the ring (antique or new) at a reputable jeweler that has a good reputation for their products and for honesty.

    The look, size of the diamond, shape and clarity are considerations to take into account when you purchase new or antique engagement rings. The clarity represents its clearness; the shape (marquee, pear, heart, solitaire) and the carat size are all things to feel out before the purchase is made.

    If you are having trouble deciding on what to get her, have your bride talk about her preferences. This ring will likely grace her finger for many decades to come and her input is vital. Visit jewelry stores and antique jewelry stores with her. She will likely give you a very good idea of what type of ring will suit her best.